How men get a raw deal

How Men Get a Raw Deal
The things that turn men on are often described as
dirty, disgusting, crude or perverted, particularly by
women. Overall, women are not aroused by the items
on a man's turn-on list and men show little reaction to
the items on a woman's list.
The public generally glorifies women's turn-ons in
movies, books and advertisements, and condemns
men's as pornographic or crude. From a biological
standpoint, however, each needs these factors to feel
aroused. Public criticism of men's turn-ons is what
drives men to hide their Playboy magazines and deny
they have secret fantasies. Many men's needs remain
unfulfilled and many feel guilt or resentment. When a
man and a woman understand the history and
evolution of their desires, it makes it easier to understand
and accept, without anger, resentment or guilt.
No person should do anything they do not feel comfortable
with but having an open discussion about
each others' needs can help to enhance a more loving
relationship. A man also needs to understand that it
takes less effort for him to organise a romantic dinner
or weekend away than it is for a woman to dress in
suspenders and swing from a chandelier.