How Men Alienate Women
If a man suspects that a woman is stressed or has a
problem, he does what men do to other men - he walks
away and gives her some space to solve her problems.
He says, 'Is everything OK honey?', she replies, 'Yes,
fine...' which is indirect talk for, 'If you love me you'll
ask me about it'. But he says, 'That's good', and goes
off to work on his computer. She thinks, 'He's uncaring
and heartless' and calls her girlfriends. They talk about
how she feels and how insensitive her man is.
In the old days, men never had to face the problems
that modern men face. To show his love for his wife and
family a man did what men have always done - he went
to work and 'brought home the bacon'. This is the way
it has been for thousands of years and it comes naturally
to most men. In most countries the workforce now
averages around 50% females so many men are no
longer expected to provide completely for their families.
A man is expected to communicate: a skill that does not
come naturally to him. But the good news is, these skills
can be learned.
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