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Sunday, November 1, 2009
It's What Happens in the Womb
If, during the early stages of pregnancy, testosterone is
suppressed and the foetus is male, the chance of giving
birth to a gay boy dramatically increases because
female hormones become the hormones used to
configure the brain. One German study in the 1970s
showed that mothers who suffered severe stress during
early pregnancy had six times the chance of giving birth
to a gay son. Research by Professor Lee Ellis of the
Department of Sociology at Minot State University in
North Dakota also showed that stressed pregnancies
equal gay babies. If the foetus is a girl, a baby daughter
may become super-feminine and will probably have
poor spatial ability. In other words, she's very
mothering and nurturing but can't reverse park or find
North. Brian Gladue of North Dakota State University
has shown that heterosexual men have better spatial
skills than homosexual men, and lesbians have better
spatial skills than heterosexual women. Why? More
male hormone was involved in the wiring of their
brains. So what suppresses testosterone? The main
factors are stress, sickness and some medications.
We have known for some time about the dangerous
effects of alcohol and nicotine on the unborn baby and
of the positive effects of the right diet and stress-free
living. New research by experts such as Dr Vivette
Glover at London's Chelsea Hospital shows that
pregnant women who suffer stress give birth to babies
who are also unable to deal with stressful situations. Dr
Glenn Wilson of the Institute of Psychiatry in London
has also studied this area extensively. He concluded,
'Certain chemical drugs can interfere with testosterone
function and the result can be the birth of a gay baby.'
If the foetus is a genetic girl (XX) and the brain is
dosed in male hormone, the result is a female body
with male brain circuitry. As children, these girls are
usually called 'tomboys' and they play rougher and
harder than their female peers. They are likely to grow
more body and facial hair than other girls at puberty,
they are better at hand-eye and ball skills and as
adults are sometimes described as 'butch'. A high percentage
become lesbians. Accidental dosing of male
hormones can occur if the pregnant mother is taking
certain medications that contain high levels of male
hormones, like some contraceptive pills, diabetic drugs
and other medications.
One study of diabetic women who were pregnant
during the 1950s and '60s shows a high ratio of baby
girls who became lesbians after adolescence because
their brains received too much male hormone from the
diabetic drug at the critical period of brain development
of the foetus.
Similarly, another study showed that women of the
same era who received female hormones such as
oestrogen in the belief that it would help pregnancy had
a five to ten times greater chance of giving birth to a gay
baby boy. It's not until adolescence that the brain
circuitry is switched on by the massive surge of
hormones that race through a teenager's body and the
real sexuality of the teenager becomes apparent.
Echoing these findings, researchers at the Kinsey
Institute in America found that mothers who had taken
male hormones during pregnancy had daughters who
were described as having high levels of self-reliance,
self-assertiveness and were likely to be involved in
aggressive sports such as kickboxing or football. As
children, many were described as 'tomboys'. Mothers
who had taken female hormones had more daughters
who were described as more 'feminine' and sons who
were softer and gentler than their peers, were more
dependent on others and were not physically active.

How give a woman sincere compliment

How to Give a Woman a
Sincere Compliment
When a woman tries on a new dress and asks a man,
'How does it look?', she'll probably receive a simple
response like 'good' or 'fine' which does not score any
points. To score good points a man needs to respond
the same way a woman would, by giving details.
Some men cringe at the thought
of responding in detail, but if
you are prepared to try it, you will
score big points with most women.
For example, if he said, 'Wow! Great choice! Turn
around, let me see the back. That colour really suits
you! The cut flatters your figure. Those earrings match
your outfit perfectly, you look wonderful,' most women
would be extremely impressed.

How to find the right partner

How to Find the Right Partner
Love starts with lust which can last a few hours, a few
days or a few weeks. Next comes infatuation which
lasts, on average, 3 to 12 months before attachment
takes over. When the blinding cocktail of hormones
subsides after a year or so, we now see our partner in
the cold light of day and those little habits we found so
endearing at first begin to become irritating. Once you
thought it was cute that he could never find things in
the fridge, but now it makes you want to scream. He
used to love hearing you talk about every little thing
but now he's contemplating murder. You silently ask
yourself, 'Can I live like this for the rest of my life?
What do we have in common?'
The flower of love is the rose. After
three days all the petals fall off and
you're left with an ugly, prickly thing.
Chances are you don't have much in common or much
to talk about. Nature's objective is to throw men and
women together under the influence of a powerful
hormonal cocktail that causes them to procreate and
not think. Finding the right partner means deciding
what things you will have in common with someone in
the long-term, and to do this in advance of nature's
blinding hormonal highs. When infatuation has passed -
and pass it will - can you maintain a lasting relationship
based on friendship and common interests? Write a list
of the traits and interests you want in a long-term
partner and then you'll know exactly who you are
looking for. A man will have a list of qualities for his
ideal mate but when he goes to a party, his brain is fired
up by testosterone. It then searches for the 'ideal'
woman based on hormonal motivation - nice legs, flat
stomach, round bum, good breasts, and so on, all
features connected with short-term procreation.
Women want a man who is sensitive and caring, has a
V-shaped torso and a great personality, all things
connected to child-rearing, lunch-chasing and protecting.
These are also short-term biological needs and have
little to do with success in a modern relationship. When
you write a list of the desirable long-term characteristics
in your perfect partner and keep it handy, it helps you
to be objective about a new person the next time nature
tries to control your thoughts and urges.
Nature wants you to procreate as often as possible
and it uses powerful drugs to push you into it. When
you understand this and are armed with a job description
of your ideal long-term mate, you are less likely to
be tricked and more likely to be successful in your hunt
for that elusive perfect partner with whom you'll be
finally able to live happily ever after.