How Men Get a Raw Deal
The things that turn men on are often described as
dirty, disgusting, crude or perverted, particularly by
women. Overall, women are not aroused by the items
on a man's turn-on list and men show little reaction to
the items on a woman's list.
The public generally glorifies women's turn-ons in
movies, books and advertisements, and condemns
men's as pornographic or crude. From a biological
standpoint, however, each needs these factors to feel
aroused. Public criticism of men's turn-ons is what
drives men to hide their Playboy magazines and deny
they have secret fantasies. Many men's needs remain
unfulfilled and many feel guilt or resentment. When a
man and a woman understand the history and
evolution of their desires, it makes it easier to understand
and accept, without anger, resentment or guilt.
No person should do anything they do not feel comfortable
with but having an open discussion about
each others' needs can help to enhance a more loving
relationship. A man also needs to understand that it
takes less effort for him to organise a romantic dinner
or weekend away than it is for a woman to dress in
suspenders and swing from a chandelier.
How men alienate woman
How Men Alienate Women
If a man suspects that a woman is stressed or has a
problem, he does what men do to other men - he walks
away and gives her some space to solve her problems.
He says, 'Is everything OK honey?', she replies, 'Yes,
fine...' which is indirect talk for, 'If you love me you'll
ask me about it'. But he says, 'That's good', and goes
off to work on his computer. She thinks, 'He's uncaring
and heartless' and calls her girlfriends. They talk about
how she feels and how insensitive her man is.
In the old days, men never had to face the problems
that modern men face. To show his love for his wife and
family a man did what men have always done - he went
to work and 'brought home the bacon'. This is the way
it has been for thousands of years and it comes naturally
to most men. In most countries the workforce now
averages around 50% females so many men are no
longer expected to provide completely for their families.
A man is expected to communicate: a skill that does not
come naturally to him. But the good news is, these skills
can be learned.
If a man suspects that a woman is stressed or has a
problem, he does what men do to other men - he walks
away and gives her some space to solve her problems.
He says, 'Is everything OK honey?', she replies, 'Yes,
fine...' which is indirect talk for, 'If you love me you'll
ask me about it'. But he says, 'That's good', and goes
off to work on his computer. She thinks, 'He's uncaring
and heartless' and calls her girlfriends. They talk about
how she feels and how insensitive her man is.
In the old days, men never had to face the problems
that modern men face. To show his love for his wife and
family a man did what men have always done - he went
to work and 'brought home the bacon'. This is the way
it has been for thousands of years and it comes naturally
to most men. In most countries the workforce now
averages around 50% females so many men are no
longer expected to provide completely for their families.
A man is expected to communicate: a skill that does not
come naturally to him. But the good news is, these skills
can be learned.
How hormon control us
How Hormones Control Us
In the past, it was thought that hormones only affected
the body and not the brain. We now know that
hormones programme our brains before birth, dictating
our thinking and behaviour. Testosterone in teenage
boys is 15-20 times higher than in teenage girls and the
hormone flow in boys is controlled and regulated by the
brain as the body needs it.
At puberty, testosterone surges through an adolescent
boy's body, giving him a dramatic spurt of growth and
a body ratio of 15% fat and 45% protein. As he turns
into an adolescent, his body physically changes to match
his biological job description as a lean, mean, lunchchasing
machine. Boys are excellent at sport because
their bodies are hormonally constructed for effective
breathing and they have excellent oxygen distribution
via the red blood cells to allow running, jumping and
grappling. Steroids are male hormones that build additional
muscle and give athletes extra 'hunting' abilities
and an unfair advantage over non-steroid takers.
Female hormones have a different effect on teenage
girls. They are not regulated like a boy's hormones but
come in huge waves over a 28-day cycle and can cause
havoc for many girls and women due to the rise and fall
of emotions that go with it. Female hormones change a
girl's body into a ratio of 26% fat and 20% protein,
much to the frustration of females everywhere. The
purpose of the extra fat is to give additional energy for
breastfeeding and is insurance against times when food
may be scarce. Because female hormones fatten the
body, they are used to fatten livestock. Male hormones
reduce fat and build muscle so they're unsuitable for
animal fattening.
In the past, it was thought that hormones only affected
the body and not the brain. We now know that
hormones programme our brains before birth, dictating
our thinking and behaviour. Testosterone in teenage
boys is 15-20 times higher than in teenage girls and the
hormone flow in boys is controlled and regulated by the
brain as the body needs it.
At puberty, testosterone surges through an adolescent
boy's body, giving him a dramatic spurt of growth and
a body ratio of 15% fat and 45% protein. As he turns
into an adolescent, his body physically changes to match
his biological job description as a lean, mean, lunchchasing
machine. Boys are excellent at sport because
their bodies are hormonally constructed for effective
breathing and they have excellent oxygen distribution
via the red blood cells to allow running, jumping and
grappling. Steroids are male hormones that build additional
muscle and give athletes extra 'hunting' abilities
and an unfair advantage over non-steroid takers.
Female hormones have a different effect on teenage
girls. They are not regulated like a boy's hormones but
come in huge waves over a 28-day cycle and can cause
havoc for many girls and women due to the rise and fall
of emotions that go with it. Female hormones change a
girl's body into a ratio of 26% fat and 20% protein,
much to the frustration of females everywhere. The
purpose of the extra fat is to give additional energy for
breastfeeding and is insurance against times when food
may be scarce. Because female hormones fatten the
body, they are used to fatten livestock. Male hormones
reduce fat and build muscle so they're unsuitable for
animal fattening.
Mathematic and hormones
Mathematics and Hormones
Boys use their right front brain to solve mathematical
problems. The spatial area for girls is located on both
sides of the brain and tests show that many females use
the left front verbal side of the brain to attempt to solve
mathematical problems. This is the likely explanation
for so many women counting aloud. It also goes a long
way to explaining why girls are generally better than
boys at basic calculus and their co-operation and commitment
to study often gives them the edge over boys in
arithmetic or mathematical exams.
Brain development in girls occurs much earlier than in
boys, which partially explains why they do better
earlier. But after puberty boys catch up and excel in
mathematical reasoning as testosterone boosts their
spatial ability. Tests of mathematical ability were
carried out by Johns Hopkins University in Boston on
gifted children aged between 11 and 13. They discovered
that the more difficult the tests became, the more
the boys' ability exceeded that of the girls. At the easier
levels, gifted boys beat gifted girls on a ratio of 2:1; in
the middle levels the ratio increased to 4:1; and at the
highest degree of difficulty it reached 13:1.
In 1998, Canadian brain research authority Dr
Doreen Kimura found that if you double or triple the
amount of testosterone in a male, it does not necessarily
double or triple his mathematical reasoning skills. This
shows that there is probably an optimum level for
testosterone effectiveness somewhere in the low to midrange
levels. In other words, King Kong will not necessarily
show better mathematical reasoning ability than
a man with a slow growing beard. Interestingly, testosterone
does improve women's mathematical reasoning
more dramatically than it does for men. A woman with
a moustache is therefore much more likely to make a
better engineer than one who looks like a Barbie doll.
Men score higher in map-reading ability in the autumn
when their testosterone is at its highest levels.
Girls suffering PMT get lower
scores in mathematical exams.
The education system favours boys and disadvantages
girls in mathematical exams because studies show that
girls suffering PMT have testosterone levels that are significantly
lower during this phase. One study showed
that girls with PMT scored 14% lower in mathematical
exams when they had PMT than girls who weren't
suffering PMT. A fairer system would be to arrange
exams to take place at a time that is biologically more
suitable for girls. Boys can take the tests at any time.
Boys use their right front brain to solve mathematical
problems. The spatial area for girls is located on both
sides of the brain and tests show that many females use
the left front verbal side of the brain to attempt to solve
mathematical problems. This is the likely explanation
for so many women counting aloud. It also goes a long
way to explaining why girls are generally better than
boys at basic calculus and their co-operation and commitment
to study often gives them the edge over boys in
arithmetic or mathematical exams.
Brain development in girls occurs much earlier than in
boys, which partially explains why they do better
earlier. But after puberty boys catch up and excel in
mathematical reasoning as testosterone boosts their
spatial ability. Tests of mathematical ability were
carried out by Johns Hopkins University in Boston on
gifted children aged between 11 and 13. They discovered
that the more difficult the tests became, the more
the boys' ability exceeded that of the girls. At the easier
levels, gifted boys beat gifted girls on a ratio of 2:1; in
the middle levels the ratio increased to 4:1; and at the
highest degree of difficulty it reached 13:1.
In 1998, Canadian brain research authority Dr
Doreen Kimura found that if you double or triple the
amount of testosterone in a male, it does not necessarily
double or triple his mathematical reasoning skills. This
shows that there is probably an optimum level for
testosterone effectiveness somewhere in the low to midrange
levels. In other words, King Kong will not necessarily
show better mathematical reasoning ability than
a man with a slow growing beard. Interestingly, testosterone
does improve women's mathematical reasoning
more dramatically than it does for men. A woman with
a moustache is therefore much more likely to make a
better engineer than one who looks like a Barbie doll.
Men score higher in map-reading ability in the autumn
when their testosterone is at its highest levels.
Girls suffering PMT get lower
scores in mathematical exams.
The education system favours boys and disadvantages
girls in mathematical exams because studies show that
girls suffering PMT have testosterone levels that are significantly
lower during this phase. One study showed
that girls with PMT scored 14% lower in mathematical
exams when they had PMT than girls who weren't
suffering PMT. A fairer system would be to arrange
exams to take place at a time that is biologically more
suitable for girls. Boys can take the tests at any time.
Hormonal chemistry
Hormonal Chemistry
Oestrogen is the female hormone that gives women an
overall feeling of contentment and well-being, and plays
a major role in a woman's nurturing and nest-defending
behaviours. Because of its calming effect, it is also given
to aggressive males in prisons to control violent
behaviour. Oestrogen also aids memory, which explains
why so many women suffer memory problems after
menopause when their oestrogen levels drop. Those
who are on Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)
have better memory retention.
Experiments in June 2000 by Dr Agnes Lacreuse of
Emory University in Atlanta showed that as the ratio of
testosterone to oestrogen changes most women will
experience an enhancement in spatial memory. This
can make it easier for them to remember where car
keys, glasses or handbags have been left - or where
they parked the car.
Progesterone is the hormone that releases parental and
nurturing feelings and its purpose is to encourage a
woman to carry out her child-rearing role successfully.
Progesterone is released when a woman sees a baby and
research shows it is the baby's shape that triggers the
release of the hormone. A baby has short, stubby arms
and legs, a round, plump torso, oversized head and large
eyes, and these shapes are known as 'releasers'. The
reaction to this shape is so strong that the hormone is
also released when a woman sees these shapes in an
object like a stuffed toy. This is why toys such as teddy
bears and baby animals sell so well to females and long,
gangly-shaped toys don't. A woman or girl will pick up
a teddy bear and sigh, 'Ahh ... isn't it beautiful!' and
progesterone is released into her bloodstream.
Most men, lacking progesterone hormones, can't understand
a woman's over-reaction to a piece of high-priced
stuffed merchandise. This could also explain why women
who are the mothering type marry short fat men with
chubby cheeks.
Look at these three illustrations. Seeing the baby causes
the release of progesterone hormone in women and the
toy bear has the same effect. There are no releaser
shapes in the third example so it will not release progesterone
in a woman. The best selling toys have always
Oestrogen is the female hormone that gives women an
overall feeling of contentment and well-being, and plays
a major role in a woman's nurturing and nest-defending
behaviours. Because of its calming effect, it is also given
to aggressive males in prisons to control violent
behaviour. Oestrogen also aids memory, which explains
why so many women suffer memory problems after
menopause when their oestrogen levels drop. Those
who are on Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)
have better memory retention.
Experiments in June 2000 by Dr Agnes Lacreuse of
Emory University in Atlanta showed that as the ratio of
testosterone to oestrogen changes most women will
experience an enhancement in spatial memory. This
can make it easier for them to remember where car
keys, glasses or handbags have been left - or where
they parked the car.
Progesterone is the hormone that releases parental and
nurturing feelings and its purpose is to encourage a
woman to carry out her child-rearing role successfully.
Progesterone is released when a woman sees a baby and
research shows it is the baby's shape that triggers the
release of the hormone. A baby has short, stubby arms
and legs, a round, plump torso, oversized head and large
eyes, and these shapes are known as 'releasers'. The
reaction to this shape is so strong that the hormone is
also released when a woman sees these shapes in an
object like a stuffed toy. This is why toys such as teddy
bears and baby animals sell so well to females and long,
gangly-shaped toys don't. A woman or girl will pick up
a teddy bear and sigh, 'Ahh ... isn't it beautiful!' and
progesterone is released into her bloodstream.
Most men, lacking progesterone hormones, can't understand
a woman's over-reaction to a piece of high-priced
stuffed merchandise. This could also explain why women
who are the mothering type marry short fat men with
chubby cheeks.
Look at these three illustrations. Seeing the baby causes
the release of progesterone hormone in women and the
toy bear has the same effect. There are no releaser
shapes in the third example so it will not release progesterone
in a woman. The best selling toys have always
Secret of our life
Saturday, October 3, 2009
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